Why Children Often Respond Better to an Apology When Adults Name What Can Happen Next Instead of Asking “Are You Okay?” Right Away
After a conflict, adults often hope the hardest part is over once one child says sorry. Yet many families notice that the apology lands awkwardly. The hurt child shrugs, turns away, says no, bursts into tears, or simply freezes. Adults may quickly ask, “Are you okay now?” or “Do you feel better?” and receive silence,…